“BDSM couple” is a very special couple. Miss M and her sub live an FLR that is extremely advanced. She determines everything and keeps her sub permanently locked up. While she has more orgasms in her FLR than ever before, her sub has none. He is permanently locked and denied. Miss M even lends him out to other Mistresses who are allowed to have fun with him. And yes: they do have fun, because the sub is extremely receptive anally.
In the interview, Miss M. gives tips on what she advises other Femdoms who are also aiming for FLR. We also find out more about the two of them. But there are also things that we will not find out. For example, which country they live in. Just this much: in the northern part of Europe. For reasons of privacy, some things remain a secret. Be inspired!
Lady Sas: Dear Miss M, congratulations. Under your guidance and training, your sub has really developed impressively. Please describe to us how you became a BDSM Couple.
Miss M, BDSM Couple: It actually began already on our first date. The man who later became my real life slave told me that he had some unusual sexual interests and that he had a Prince Albert Piercing. He told me a little about dominance and BDSM and he managed to make me curious about it. I had no experience and he had plenty so in the beginning he was the dominant one using me. He was very gentle and he slowly pushed my limits while making me feel completely safe. I loved this new world that he was showing me and I wanted more!
After a year or so I had learned so much and I also wanted to try being in charge. We then switched for a couple of years taking turns being dominant every other week. I began feeling more and more drawn towards Femdom and we both felt that the switching was difficult. We both wanted more intensity and permanent roles. At this time I felt confident enough to suggest a Female Led Relationship and he accepted. Of course we didn’t start out with me controlling every aspect of his life. But as time passed by it developed and now I am 100 % in control.
I am the Boss and he is my obedient slave. No exceptions.
Miss M
BDSM Couple interviewed by Lady Sas
Lady Sas: You are living an FLR. How would you describe this in concrete terms?
Miss M, BDSM Couple: It is very simple. I am the Boss and he is my obedient slave. No exceptions. When I have made a decision it is final. I control everything I want to control; his diet, what clothes he wears, what kind of sex we have and when we have it, who he is sent to serve. I even control the economy. His salary is transferred to my account and he gets a modes allowance so he can buy the things needed for his personal hygiene. Everything else he has to ask for. But of course this would not be possible without love and trust. He is the love of my life and he knows I take good care of him.
Lady Sas: Your sub has been wearing a penis cage for years. Please tell us how chastity has transformed him and what his current status is.
Miss M, BDSM Couple: The chastity started as a fun game for just a few days at a time. But I quickly discovered that it made him focus more on me and my needs. So slowly I increased the periods of time he was locked and denied. I found that his behavior seemed to improve the longer he was locked and denied and eventually I decided to make it permanent.
I even bought the most extreme custom made Cock Cage ever built. The last time he fucked and had an orgasm was on the 31st of December 2019. And he will never experience it again. His final transformation into 100% slave was caused by being permanently locked and denied.
The last time he fucked and had an orgasm was on the 31st of December 2019. And he will never experience it again.
Miss M
Miss M. about FLR
Lady Sas: What would you recommend to other Femdoms who are also aiming for an FLR?
Miss M, BDSM Couple: First of all the man must also want it. And if he does it’s important to make him want to hand over all control. Keep him locked and denied. Reward his obedience with sex (no orgasm for him!) … tease him … wear lingerie …. use his tongue often … let him touch you and smell you. Make him desperate and make him beg for it. Make him desire you!
And punish him severely when he is not behaving. Tell him why you are punishing him so he can learn from it. Tell him how disappointed you are. And be consistent!! A lot of women fail at this part. They let it slide when they are tired or they feel sorry for him. This makes him test her and if it happens often he will stop respecting her authority. A punishment must be something he fears. When I was training my husband I beat his testicles and that is something he really fears. Or I took something away from him that he really enjoyed; it could be going to a football match he was really looking forward to. If he had been really bad I would tie him up in the next room so he could hear the sound of the match from the TV. I would watch the match and beat his testicles during half time and after the match.
Lady Sas: You send your sub to other Mistresses. What do you expect from this and how does it work?
Miss M, BDSM Couple: It helps him understand that he is my personal property. A toy I can let anyone I like play with. And it works. He always come back home being extremely submissive. I do two things: I send him to Pro Dommes for shooting content I can sell to pay for the travel expenses. And I let women rent him for use off camera. The number of ordinary women contacting me about renting my real life slave has really surprised me!
And punish him severely when he is not behaving. Tell him why you are punishing him so he can learn from it. Tell him how disappointed you are. And be consistent!!
Miss M
Miss M. from the BDSM Couple about Pegging
Lady Sas: Your sub is anally very resilient. Why is pegging so important for you both?
Miss M, BDSM Couple: When he is pegged or fisted it is his ultimate surrendering to a Lady. She is deep inside his body and if she goes elbow deep or beyond with her arm she can actually feel his heart beating. I know this is extreme to most people but it helps him understand what he is: A toy.
Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?
Miss M, BDSM Couple: I will just go with the flow and I don’t really have any plans besides doing what I do now and enjoying every second of it. I keep getting new ideas and I have just marked him with a couple of new tattoos. Lately I have been thinking a lot about having him branded with a hot iron. But I am not in a hurry …. maybe later this year … maybe next year …. for now I am enjoying owning a real life slave.
Lady Sas: Thank you for the interview.
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