Ms. Chloe Mars, Toronto, Canada

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Ms. Chloe Mars is an experienced, tall and adorably attractive Dominatrix from Toronto who really impressed me with her personality. She is self-reflective, attentive and always has people’s well-being in mind. You can feel her warmth and positive, supportive energy. However, the Mistress can also be very clear and uncompromising. For example, when it comes to the fact that US President Trump is thinking that Canada could become part of the USA. A highly interesting interview with an outstanding personality who has a big, beautiful goal for the future. Enjoy.

Lady Sas: Dear Chloe, you work as a professional Dominatrix in Toronto. Is Canada still Canada or already a federal state of the USA, as President Trump has demanded? What is your opinion on this?

Ms. Chloe Mars: Regardless of Donald Trump’s “demands”, I am certain that Canada will remain its own nation. Many discussions focus on our geography, but our independence is not just about borders—it’s about our collective right to define our own future. And I, like so many others, won’t accept a future where we bow to the whims of a demagogue who seeks control without consent.

Power should never be taken; it should be consciously wielded with responsibility and care. As a Dominatrix, I understand this on an intimate level. In the world of BDSM, power is negotiated, never imposed; it is built on consent, not coercion. The same must be true on a national level—Canada should never be strong-armed into submission by a political movement that thrives on fear, division, and lack of autonomy.

Ms. Chloe Mars, Pro-Domme from Toronto, Canada

Lady Sas: Please describe to us how you became a Dominatrix.

Ms. Chloe Mars: My journey into professional domination began organically through my personal experiences in the BDSM lifestyle. From an early stage, I found myself naturally drawn to dominance in my personal relationships, frequently taking on the “top” role in various dynamics. But this wasn’t just a role I played—it was an intrinsic part of who I am.

As I explored the lifestyle more deeply, I discovered a passion for power exchange and the intricate nuances of BDSM.

My growing knowledge and confidence in my abilities led me to start taking on professional clients while still maintaining a conventional 9-to-5 job. During this period, I balanced my “vanilla” career with my work as a Dominatrix, honing my skills and learning how to navigate the professional side of the industry. Finally, with enough clients and expertise under my belt, I left my traditional job to be a Pro-Domme full time and haven’t looked back since!

I see people at their most vulnerable, and in that space, I create experiences that allow them to let go, feel seen, and explore sides of themselves they might not show anywhere else. It’s intimate, intense, and deeply rewarding.

Ms. Chloe Mars

Lady Sas: What excites you about playing with slaves?

Ms. Chloe Mars: I’ll start with a very brief caveat that I don’t actually use the term “slave” due to the historical and cultural weight that it carries. Let me be clear—this is not a judgement of those who use this term or identify with it, it is a personal preference that is also fairly common within the North American BDSM/kink scene.

That said, there’s an undeniable thrill in seeing the effect of your presence, words, or actions on someone else. Whether it’s the tension of anticipation, the quiet moments of care, or the intense rush of control, the interplay between Dominant and submissive is often full of depth and nuance. At its best, it’s not just about power—it’s about connection and the shared experience of something bigger than either of us alone.

Ms. Chloe Mars about being a Dominatrix

Lady Sas: Many people have a very superficial view of a dominatrix and only think of a bossy lady in boots who brandishes a whip. What does a dominatrix really do?

Ms. Chloe Mars: Being a Dominatrix is about so much more than fetish wear and menacing implements. It’s about stepping into a role where power, fantasy, and psychology intertwine. Every session is unique—sometimes I’m a strict disciplinarian, other times a nurturing guide helping someone explore their deepest desires. It isn’t just about pain or punishment; it’s about control, release, and sometimes even healing. I see people at their most vulnerable, and in that space, I create experiences that allow them to let go, feel seen, and explore sides of themselves they might not show anywhere else. It’s intimate, intense, and deeply rewarding.

Toronto’s Femdom scene is a dynamic and well-established community with a range of opportunities for both professional and lifestyle kinksters

Ms. Chloe Mars

Lady Sas: For you one of the most fulfilling roles in BDSM is that of a Mommy-Domme. Could you describe that archetype a bit? What do you love about it?

Ms. Chloe Mars: The Mommy-Domme archetype is a role that blends dominance with deep, nurturing energy, creating a dynamic that is as comforting as it is commanding. It’s about guidance, structure, and sometimes a touch of gentle (or not-so-gentle) discipline.

For me, what makes this role so fulfilling is the emotional depth it carries. It’s not just about control—it’s about care. A Mommy-Domme provides a space where their submissive can be vulnerable, letting go of the weight of the world and sinking into a kind of emotional or even psychological regression.

The power in this role comes from the ability to both nurture and correct. It’s the ability to say, “You are safe with me, but you will also obey me.” That mix of tenderness and authority can foster a connection where my submissive knows that I see them, accept them, but ultimately own them—mind, body, and heart.

About the working conditions of Dominatrices in Canada

Lady Sas: What are the working conditions for Dominatrices in Canada? In Germany, you need an official ID card as a sex worker.

Ms. Chloe Mars: While Germany has a clear regulatory framework for sex workers and Dominatrices, the legal landscape in Canada is much more ambiguous. Although consensual BDSM activities are generally legal, Canadian courts have ruled that you cannot legally consent to bodily harm, which inevitably complicates our practice.

On top of which, Canada criminalizes the purchase of sexual services, but not the sale. This creates a legal gray area for Dominatrices and their clients, especially regarding the definition of sexual services and the legality of associated activities. In short, working as a Professional Dominatrix in Canada often requires careful navigation of nuanced and somewhat unclear policies.

When the weather is warm, I love going to Hanlan’s Point (Toronto’s nude beach) to picnic and sunbathe with my friends.

Ms. Chloe Mars

Lady Sas: How would you describe the femdom scene in Toronto?

Ms. Chloe Mars: Toronto’s Femdom scene is a dynamic and well-established community with a range of opportunities for both professional and lifestyle kinksters. The city is home to many skilled Pro-Dominants and a variety of professionally equipped dungeons.

Beyond the professional realm, Toronto has an active lifestyle BDSM community with numerous events catering to Femdom and adjacent dynamics. Munches, play parties, fetish raves, and exclusive gatherings provide spaces for kinky folks to connect and explore power exchange in a supportive environment. Whether in structured dungeons or intimate private settings, the city fosters a deep appreciation for FemDom (and BDSM/kink more broadly), making it a fairly welcoming place for people drawn to the scene.

The private side of Ms. Chloe Mars

Lady Sas: Has your work as a Mistress changed your view on men?

Ms. Chloe Mars: I’m sure many people would assume that being a Dominatrix has made me despise men or something, but that’s simply not true. I think that working as a Dominatrix has given me a much deeper, more nuanced understanding of men. Society often paints masculinity in rigid terms—strength, dominance, control—but in my sessions, I see the vulnerability, the need for surrender, and the deep desire to be seen and understood without judgement. I’ve learned that so many men crave a space where they can relinquish the burdens of societal expectations and simply exist in submission. If anything, my work has given me a better appreciation for their contradictions, struggles, and their willingness to be vulnerable in my presence.

Lady Sas: Please tell us how you spend your free time.

Ms. Chloe Mars: When I’m not in the dungeon, I put my creative skills to work making websites for other sex workers. It’s a passion project and side gig that I’ve been doing for a couple years now called Project Deimos (projectdeimos.com). Otherwise, I’m actually a homebody at heart and enjoy spending time with my cat and closest humans. When the weather is warm, I love going to Hanlan’s Point (Toronto’s nude beach) to picnic and sunbathe with my friends.

Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?

Ms. Chloe Mars: While I plan to continue my work as a Dominatrix, one of my long-term goals is to open what I believe will be the world’s first fully accessible, disability-informed dungeon. There’s a serious lack of accessible kink spaces in Toronto—and globally—which creates unnecessary barriers for both disabled clients and providers. My vision is to create a dungeon that not only meets professional design standards but seamlessly integrates accessibility features without compromising the atmosphere or aesthetics. Everyone deserves the opportunity to explore BDSM in a space that feels authentic, functional and safe, so my goal is to make that happen.

Lady Sas: That’s a great goal! Thank you very much.

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FAQs

1. Who is Ms. Chloe Mars?
Ms. Chloe Mars is a professional Dominatrix from Toronto, Canada. She is 6 ft tall, experienced in different BDSM dynamics, and is known for her warm but very clear and consent-based approach to power exchange.

2. What makes her approach to BDSM special?
She emphasizes that real dominance is always consensual, negotiated, and responsible. Power should never be taken, it should be given. That’s true for BDSM — and, as she says, also for politics.

3. Why doesn’t she use the term “slave”?
Because of the historical and cultural weight of the word. In North America many kink practitioners prefer terms like “submissive” or “bottom” to keep the play consensual and respectful.

4. What is a Mommy-Domme, according to her?
A Mommy-Domme combines authority with care. It’s a nurturing, guiding dominance: “You are safe with me — but you will also obey me.” It allows the submissive to let go and be vulnerable.

5. What does she say about Canada vs. the USA (Trump’s idea)?
She is very clear: Canada will stay Canada. Power over a country — just like power in BDSM — must not be imposed but must be based on autonomy and consent.

6. How is the Femdom/BDSM scene in Toronto?
According to her, Toronto has a very active and diverse scene — with professional dungeons, lifestyle events, parties, munches and spaces for power exchange, also for Femdom.

7. What future project does she want to build?
She wants to create one of the first fully accessible, disability-informed dungeons so that disabled clients and providers can enjoy BDSM in a safe, authentic space.

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