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The golden days of the Other World Kingdom (OWK) are long gone, yet many still enjoy reminiscing about this fascinating realm where women ruled and men served as naked slaves licking their boots. Today, sub H looks back on his OWK slave experience.
Lady Sas: Slave H, please introduce yourself.
Slave H: First, it is a great honor for me to have this conversation with you. I’m already past 50, submissive, and have masochistic tendencies. A classic slave. I have an extreme fetish for lacquer, leather, and latex. For me, SM is a way of life. For several years I lived it as a weekend relationship because I was working out of town during the week. I had to be careful when I showered after work because the door had to stay locked — I was usually covered in welts. I couldn’t hide it completely. And the neighbors knew what was happening whenever the radio got turned up louder: I was getting another beating. It was one of her passions. It gave her intense pleasure. For me, not always — especially when she pushed me to my limits. Of course, sometimes I cried. But it shaped me.
People figured things out anyway. She took the elevator; it was taboo for me. I had to carry everything up and down the stairs. Even my buddies knew who wore the pants and that I had nothing to say. But they didn’t know that we lived SM and that I had to be naked in the apartment, crawling around and asking for permission to go to the bathroom or eat at the table. Unimaginable. Sometimes eating from a bowl on the floor after her — and sometimes without utensils.
OWK slave experience of sub H
Lady Sas: You visited the OWK, the Other World Kingdom. Tell us how you got to know it. What was your OWK experience like?
Slave H: Since I visited Princess Yara for sessions quite often, she once asked if I wanted to accompany her to the OWK because one of her slaves couldn’t make it. She explained everything to me and showed me brochures. I was fascinated immediately and said: if I get vacation days, I’m going. Said and done. The Mistress, the other slave, and me.
Lady Sas: What fascinated you most about the OWK?
Slave H: When we arrived on Friday, there were already many people — from all over Europe. That Friday the OWK court proceedings began. The judge back in 1999 was Madame Sylvia from Sweden. The punishments were carried out by the OWK Ladies. Slaves who had been disobedient over the past year were sentenced. After sentencing, the slave had to crawl from Lady to Lady and collect his punishment from each one. They were armed with canes and whips.
There were many activities: billiards, sports competitions, evening parties in the large hall, a sales show with SM items, even horse-carriage races with human ponies. Everything was relaxed — as long as you didn’t upset the Ladies.
OWK slave experience: It was even more beautiful than I imagined
Lady Sas: I assume you knew the OWK from photos and videos before your visit. How was it to experience it in real life?
Slave H: It was even more beautiful than I imagined. It’s the ultimate highlight for classic slaves. And being with Princess Yara made everything much easier. As I said, everything was relaxed. It was great.
Lady Sas: Which OWK Ladies stood out to you?
Slave H: There were incredibly beautiful Ladies present — Madame Pascal, the OWK Ladies Christine, Lady Nicole, Lady Sarka, and many others.
Lady Sas: How did the communication work? Some of the Ladies’ English wasn’t the best.
Slave H: Honestly, there were almost no problems. And for me it didn’t matter anyway — I had nothing to say. 😊
Lady Sas: Let’s look behind the scenes. What did you learn during your visit that you didn’t expect?
Slave H: As I said, it was very relaxed. People laughed together. But of course, we slaves knew how to behave. No Mistress wants to be embarrassed by her slave. And yes, there were some extremely harsh whippings too. That’s part of it.
“We laughed together.” — OWK slave experience of sub H
Lady Sas: Have you ever encountered anything similar to the OWK again? Do you know of any place with a similar concept?
Slave H: No, unfortunately not.
Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?
Slave H: Hard to say. Of course I would love to live it intensely again — ideally in a relationship aiming for TPE. But it’s not easy. It requires a lot of trust on both sides. And chemistry. A slave must always keep learning because every Mistress is different. One likes it extreme, one is very strict, another enjoys publicly showing who is in charge, and so on.
All of that can be learned. I have no problem living it intensely or exposing myself publicly if the Mistress wants it and I feel that we could live it long-term. You only live once — so live what you truly want inside. Who cares what others think when you belong to a Mistress again?
Lady Sas: Thank you for these insights, Slave H. If anyone else wants to share their first-hand OWK experience, feel free to contact me: dearladysas@gmail.com
On my website, you’ll find numerous exclusive interviews where Mistresses and subs share firsthand accounts of what the Other World Kingdom was like in the past — and what it’s like today.
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FAQs
Who is Slave H and how did he discover BDSM?
Slave H is a submissive man in his fifties with masochistic tendencies and a deep fetish for lacquer, leather, and latex. For years he lived BDSM as a strict weekend relationship marked by discipline, beatings, rituals, and complete obedience. These experiences shaped him profoundly.
How did Slave H first hear about the OWK?
He learned about the Other World Kingdom through Princess Yara. One of her slaves had canceled, so she invited him to join her and showed him OWK brochures. He was fascinated immediately and agreed to go as soon as he could take time off work.
What impressed Slave H most when he arrived at the OWK?
The large number of guests from all over Europe amazed him. He arrived just as the OWK’s mock court sessions began, where slaves were sentenced for disobedience and punished by various Ladies. The formal atmosphere, the rituals, and the strict execution of punishments made a deep impression.
What kinds of activities did Slave H experience at the OWK?
He describes a wide range of events: trials, punishments, billiards, sports competitions, evening parties, a marketplace for SM gear, and pony-cart races with human ponies. Everything was relaxed as long as the Ladies were respected.
Was the OWK how Slave H imagined it from photos and videos?
No — it was even better. For him, visiting the OWK was the ultimate highlight for a classical slave. Being with Princess Yara made the entire experience easier and more enjoyable.
Which OWK Ladies stood out to Slave H?
He remembers Madame Pascal as well as OWK Ladies Christine, Lady Nicole, Lady Sarka, and others. He describes them as extremely beautiful and charismatic figures in the scene.
Were there communication problems at the OWK?
According to Slave H, almost none. Even though some Ladies spoke limited English, communication flowed naturally — and as he humorously notes, he hardly had anything to say anyway.
What surprised Slave H most about the OWK?
He was surprised by how relaxed and friendly the atmosphere often was. People laughed together, but the discipline was still absolute. Slaves knew exactly how to behave. Harsh whippings were part of the system when needed.
Has Slave H ever experienced anything similar to the OWK?
No. He has never encountered another place with a similarly strict, immersive Femdom structure and atmosphere.
What are Slave H’s hopes for his BDSM future?
He hopes to live BDSM intensely again — ideally in a relationship with the goal of TPE. But he knows this requires trust, chemistry, and a willingness to learn. He is ready to live his submission fully, even publicly, if the Mistress desires it.