Are you thinking about Domina Training to become a dominatrix? Would you like to turn your passion for BDSM into a career or side job and build your own business? A lot of subs are in desperate need of new, ambitious mistresses, as there have been some painful departures recently. And due to their age, some prominent dominatrixes will be making way for new ladies in the not too distant future. So your chances are good. On this page, you can find out more about Domina Training to become a dominatrix. By the way, this is written by Lady Sas, an experienced private femdom and BDSM author.
This is how dominatrix training used to work.
In earlier years, dominatrix training was almost exclusively carried out in person in an SM studio. An experienced professional mistress passed on her knowledge and practical experience to the next generation. Watch, learn, imitate, practice, practice, practice.
There was also a variant where aspiring dominatrixes were first familiarized with BDSM in a submissive role. Studio managers liked to say that this was standard practice and had to be done this way. This way, they were able to find employees for the very difficult-to-fill position of slave – even if only for a short time. Today, it is almost impossible to start out as a slave because hardly any aspiring mistresses are willing to do it anymore. Practical training in SM studios is still very popular and very common.
Domina Training today
„Coaching“ is a buzzword of our time. It feels like everyone is coaching something. So it’s no surprise that domina coaching now exists. An experienced colleague provides newcomers with advice and support. It is not uncommon for experienced ladies to be unable to continue working in the studio for health reasons and decide to pass on their knowledge and experience. This is a great thing, because it means that the needs of the young dominatrix are the focus of attention. In the past, it was more a case of entertaining the guest and training taking place on the side.
Textbooks for Domina Training
Domina training requires practical units. To put it bluntly, you cannot work as a dominatrix with a clear conscience without practical experience. However, it is wise not to jump in at the deep end, but to prepare yourself for the practical side of things. This is where I come in. I have written two guidebooks that I would recommend to any aspiring dominatrix. I know that these two books have made the path easier for many dominatrixes. And I am sure that with this knowledge, you will reach your goal much more easily.
Let’s take a look at what exactly these books are about.
Femdom Academy 1.
Femdom Academy – SM Course for Mistresses & Subs, Beginners & Advanced.
Blurb on Amazon:
Private mistress Lady Sas lives SM. She writes one of the most popular femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise and wealth of experience in 15 detailed lessons.
This book is aimed at femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced practitioners who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. It contains many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for an all-round great session.
This book goes far beyond the basics of SM and is also aimed at advanced practitioners who are open to fresh inspiration, tips, and ideas.
Lesson 1: The mindset of a femdom and a sub.
Lesson 2: The relationship between mistress and sub.
Lesson 3: Preparing for the session.
Lesson 4: Starting the session.
Lesson 5: The language of a mistress.
Lesson 6: One session and 1,000 possibilities.
Lesson 7: How to come up with creative, individual ideas for sessions.
Lesson 8: Specific ideas for your sessions.
Lesson 9: Your equipment – with a shopping guide and tips.
Lesson 10: Safety and communication during the session.
Lesson 11: Possible orgasm techniques in SM.
Lesson 12: Ending the session correctly.
Lesson 13: Keeping an eye on personal development.
Lesson 14: Looking for and finding play partners.
Lesson 15: Finding happiness with BDSM. Further information and help. Glossary/terms.
Paperback edition: 296 pages.
Femdom Academy 2.
Femdom Academy 2: SM Course Next Level for Mistresses and Subs.
Book blurb on Amazon:
Private mistress Lady Sas lives SM. She writes one of the most popular femdom blogs in the German-speaking world at Lady-Sas.com and shares her BDSM expertise and wealth of experience at the Femdom Academy.
BDSM Next Level in 10 lessons. The second part of the Femdom Academy is aimed at femdoms and subs, singles and couples who want to develop further. The contemporary course offers clear explanations, understandable instructions, helpful tips, and countless practical ideas. For even more heart-pounding sessions, hot games at the next level, and intense satisfaction for both sides.
Lesson 1. Dirty Talk Next Level
Exciting mental images through verbal eroticism, dirty talk, and storytelling.
Lesson 2. Sexting
Build sexual tension with messages and tasks via text and WhatsApp.
Lesson 3. Chastity
Control and dominate your sub with a penis cage.
Lesson 4. Tease & Denial Next Level.
Arouse chastity slaves, but don’t let them cum.
Lesson 5. Obedience Next Level.
Consistently train and discipline the sub.
Lesson 6. Hitting Next Level (cane, slapping, spanking)
Punish the sub sensually and safely.
Lesson 7. Whipping Next Level.
Induce pleasurable pain in the sub with various whips.
Lesson 8. Bondage Next Level.
How to tie up your sub.
Lesson 9: Worship Next Level.
How to make the sub’s worship of the mistress even more enjoyable.
Lesson 10. Sessions Next Level.
Not for beginners.
Femdom Academy 2, SM Course Next Level for Mistresses and Subs.
Paperback edition: 253 pages.
