Dominatrix Saylie has been a Pro-Mistress for over 20 years, but she has many interests and facets. Like Lady Sas, she is a passionate author. She also loves meeting other dominant women, especially at the Femdom Ball organized by Madame Caramel in London. Find out more about Dominatrix Saylie from Paris.
Lady Sas: Dear Saylie, could you please describe how you became a dominatrix? How did this interest develop?
Dominatrix Saylie: I’ve been “playing” for a long time. I developed this taste for it at a very young age. I asked one of my classmates to serve me fruit juice naked in his room on Wednesday afternoons “like a page.” I even wrote a story called “The Page,” which you can find on my website.
Later, I put aside this need for devotion and obedience and started going regularly to the Goûters du Divin Marquis de Ness Harper in Paris. It’s a BDSM event that takes place every Friday afternoon.
Then, during lockdown, I started playing over the phone and then I created my website, which gave me the opportunity to meet partners for intellectual games who were in tune with my world.
Dominatrice Salyie, Paris
“A dominant woman in Paris, authoritative and erotic, I enjoy ”male toys,“ cultured, educated, and intellectual submissives who are looking for guidance, education, and a chance to truly let go.”
Author Saylie
“Dom’innée: Naissance d’une domina” (Dom’innée: Birth of a Dominatrix): As a lawyer by day and dominatrix by night, the author reveals the facets of a double life that is both seductive and authoritarian.
Dominatrix Saylie from Paris interviewed by Lady Sas
Lady Sas: What do you like about BDSM?
Dominatrix Saylie: Above all, letting go, and the freedom and variety of practices. Then, if I’m feeling phallic, I also love foot fetishism, candles, impact play, breast and sex work… In short, I’m greedy.
Lady Sas: How does French society approach the subject of femdom?
Dominatrix Saylie: We’re making progress on this issue, but still too slowly for my liking. The need to develop momentum and instincts still has a long way to go. For my part, I participate every year in, among other things, Madame Caramel’s wonderful and relevant event in London: The Femdom Ball. I find the spirit of this event unique.
Lady Sas: What is life like for a professional dominatrix in Paris? Are there any government controls and do you need a special work permit as a dominatrix?
Dominatrix Saylie: In Paris, this profession is possible, but I find it essential to remain very discreet. The law is quite difficult to explain here. It is allowed without being allowed.
For my part, I have been working professionally for over 20 years. My professional activity as a dominatrix is complementary. This secondary professional activity allowed me to save my first job, which I was forced to slow down due to health issues that are now behind me. So I did some sessions and I am continuing my sessions to get back on my feet financially.
I’m also continuing because I’ve grown to enjoy this “double life,” these two professions that I practice in parallel and that I love both. I will continue this way for the rest of my life.
Lady Sas: What are the most requested practices at your place?
Dominatrix Saylie: I am often asked for scenarios because I have a lot of imagination and energy to carry them out.
Foot fetishism too, because I love Cervin stockings and high heels, especially Manolo Blahniks. Then, of course, pegging, which is still a practice I particularly enjoy, and also candle wax play, because I love creating candle wax shells around the penis. And also whipping the penis with a whip, like caresses, and sometimes more firmly.
Dominatrix Saylie talks about her free time and her plans for the future.
Lady Sas: What BDSM instrument doesn’t exist yet and should definitely be invented?
Dominatrix Saylie: An accessory like Spiderman’s web, so we can tie up our partners by opening our hands and pressing them against a wall in a huge spider’s web in one single movement. A multifunction remote control that can be used from a smartphone to feel the submissives‘ tongues and their little kisses on my feet from a distance and on my hand for hand fucking. And a helmet to put on a submissive’s head to control them remotely in a dungeon, preventing them from touching themselves, forcing them into abstinence, and allowing me to demand that they fulfill my fantasies.
Lady Sas: What advice would you give to women who want to explore their dominant side but are still a little hesitant?
Dominatrix Saylie: Don’t hesitate to go to dedicated events where they can meet other women who play. And don’t hesitate to contact me if they need to talk.
Lady Sas: How do you spend your free time?
Dominatrix Saylie: Playing as a dominatrix. I go to events, dinners, private parties, and I also write my novels.
Then I love swimming in the sea, in the pool, and in the Seine.
Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?
Dominatrix Saylie: To continue my games and take the time to get to know future play partners. I’d also like to find time to have dinner with a few dominas I really like, including Madame Caramel and Domina M, whom I salute with a wink. Then I’d like to meet you too. And then write the second volume of my trilogy, “Dom’innée.”
Lady Sas: Thank you very much for this interview.
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