Dominatrix Saylie, Paris: Femdom, BDSM and Creative Play

Dominatrix Saylie has been a Pro-Mistress for over 20 years, but she has many interests and facets. Like Lady Sas, she is a passionate Femdom author. She also loves meeting other dominant women, especially at the Femdom Ball organized by Madame Caramel in London. Find out more about Dominatrix Saylie from Paris.

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Lady Sas: Dear Saylie, could you please describe how you became a dominatrix? How did this interest develop?

Dominatrix Saylie: I’ve been “playing” for a long time. I developed this taste for it at a very young age. I asked one of my classmates to serve me fruit juice naked in his room on Wednesday afternoons “like a page.” I even wrote a story called “The Page,” which you can find on my website.

Later, I put aside this need for devotion and obedience and started going regularly to the Goûters du Divin Marquis de Ness Harper in Paris. It’s a BDSM event that takes place every Friday afternoon.

Then, during lockdown, I started playing over the phone and then I created my website, which gave me the opportunity to meet partners for intellectual games who were in tune with my world.

Dominatrix Saylie on Femdom, BDSM and Creative Play

Lady Sas: What do you like about BDSM?

Dominatrix Saylie: Above all, letting go, and the freedom and variety of practices. Then, if I’m feeling phallic, I also love foot fetishism, candles, impact play, breast and sex work… In short, I’m greedy.

Lady Sas: How does French society approach the subject of femdom?

Dominatrix Saylie: We’re making progress on this issue, but still too slowly for my liking. The need to develop momentum and instincts still has a long way to go. For my part, I participate every year in, among other things, Madame Caramel’s wonderful and relevant event in London: The Femdom Ball. I find the spirit of this event unique.

Lady Sas: What is life like for a professional dominatrix in Paris? Are there any government controls and do you need a special work permit as a dominatrix?

Dominatrix Saylie: In Paris, this profession is possible, but I find it essential to remain very discreet. The law is quite difficult to explain here. It is allowed without being allowed.

For my part, I have been working professionally for over 20 years. My professional activity as a dominatrix is complementary. This secondary professional activity allowed me to save my first job, which I was forced to slow down due to health issues that are now behind me. So I did some sessions and I am continuing my sessions to get back on my feet financially.

I’m also continuing because I’ve grown to enjoy this “double life,” these two professions that I practice in parallel and that I love both. I will continue this way for the rest of my life.

Lady Sas: What are the most requested practices at your place?

Dominatrix Saylie: I am often asked for scenarios because I have a lot of imagination and energy to carry them out.

Foot fetishism too, because I love Cervin stockings and high heels, especially Manolo Blahniks. Then, of course, pegging, which is still a practice I particularly enjoy, and also candle wax play, because I love creating candle wax shells around the penis. And also whipping the penis with a whip, like caresses, and sometimes more firmly.

Saylie on Creativity, Kink and Her Future Plans

Lady Sas: What BDSM instrument doesn’t exist yet and should definitely be invented?

Dominatrix Saylie: An accessory like Spiderman’s web, so we can tie up our partners by opening our hands and pressing them against a wall in a huge spider’s web in one single movement. A multifunction remote control that can be used from a smartphone to feel the submissives’ tongues and their little kisses on my feet from a distance and on my hand for hand fucking. And a helmet to put on a submissive’s head to control them remotely in a dungeon, preventing them from touching themselves, forcing them into abstinence, and allowing me to demand that they fulfill my fantasies.

Lady Sas: What advice would you give to women who want to explore their dominant side but are still a little hesitant?

Dominatrix Saylie: Don’t hesitate to go to dedicated events where they can meet other women who play. And don’t hesitate to contact me if they need to talk.

Lady Sas: How do you spend your free time?

Dominatrix Saylie: Playing as a dominatrix. I go to events, dinners, private parties, and I also write my novels.

Then I love swimming in the sea, in the pool, and in the Seine.

Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?

Dominatrix Saylie: To continue my games and take the time to get to know future play partners. I’d also like to find time to have dinner with a few dominas I really like, including Madame Caramel and Domina M, whom I salute with a wink. Then I’d like to meet you too. And then write the second volume of my trilogy, “Dom’innée.”

Lady Sas: Thank you very much for this interview.

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FAQs

How did Dominatrix Saylie first discover her dominant side?

She developed her interest at a very young age and even “played” domination games as a teenager. Later she explored BDSM through Parisian events such as the “Goûters du Divin Marquis de Ness Harper,” which deepened her desire for devotion and obedience.

How did Dominatrix Saylie become a professional dominatrix?

During lockdown she began phone sessions and eventually created her website, which allowed her to find partners who resonated with her intellectual and erotic universe. Over time, she turned her passion into a secondary profession that complements her main job.

What does Dominatrix Saylie enjoy most about BDSM?

She values letting go, freedom, and the diversity of practices. Depending on her mood, she enjoys foot fetishism, candles, impact play, breast and sex play—and describes herself as “greedy” in her desires.

How is femdom perceived in French society?

According to Saylie, progress is happening but too slowly. She notes that instincts and momentum around femdom still need to evolve. Events like Madame Caramel’s Femdom Ball in London inspire her with their unique spirit.

What is it like to work as a professional dominatrix in Paris?

The profession is possible, but discretion is essential. The legal situation is unclear—“allowed without being allowed.” Saylie has been working professionally for over 20 years and combines dominatrix work with her main career.

What are the most common requests from her clients?

Clients often request elaborate scenarios because of her imagination and energy. Foot fetishism, pegging, candle wax play, and sensual to firm penis whipping are also frequently requested.

Which BDSM tool does she wish existed?

She imagines accessories like a Spiderman-style web for instant bondage, a multifunctional remote control to feel subs’ kisses from a distance, and a dominance helmet that enforces chastity and remote control in a dungeon.

What advice does she give women who want to explore their dominant side?

She recommends visiting dedicated BDSM events and connecting with other dominant women. She also invites hesitant women to reach out to her directly.

How does Dominatrix Saylie spend her free time?

She continues to “play” as a dominatrix, attends events, dinners, private parties, and writes her novels. She also enjoys swimming in the sea, pools, and the Seine.

What are her plans for the future?

Saylie plans to continue her sessions, connect with other Dominas such as Madame Caramel and Domina M, meet Lady Sas in person, and write the second volume of her trilogy “Dom’innée.”