Domina Training and Coaching

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Are you thinking about Domina Training to become a dominatrix? Would you like to turn your passion for BDSM into a career or side job and build your own business? A lot of subs are in desperate need of new, ambitious mistresses, as there have been some painful departures recently. And due to their age, some prominent dominatrixes will be making way for new ladies in the not too distant future. So your chances are good. On this page, you can find out more about Domina Training to become a dominatrix. By the way, this is written by Lady Sas, an experienced private femdom and BDSM author.

This is how dominatrix training used to work.

In earlier years, dominatrix training was almost exclusively carried out in person in an SM studio. An experienced professional mistress passed on her knowledge and practical experience to the next generation. Watch, learn, imitate, practice, practice, practice.

There was also a variant where aspiring dominatrixes were first familiarized with BDSM in a submissive role. Studio managers liked to say that this was standard practice and had to be done this way. This way, they were able to find employees for the very difficult-to-fill position of slave – even if only for a short time. Today, it is almost impossible to start out as a slave because hardly any aspiring mistresses are willing to do it anymore. Practical training in SM studios is still very popular and very common.

Domina Training today

“Coaching” is a buzzword of our time. It feels like everyone is coaching something. So it’s no surprise that domina coaching now exists. An experienced colleague provides newcomers with advice and support. It is not uncommon for experienced ladies to be unable to continue working in the studio for health reasons and decide to pass on their knowledge and experience. This is a great thing, because it means that the needs of the young dominatrix are the focus of attention. In the past, it was more a case of entertaining the guest and training taking place on the side.

Textbooks for Domina Training

Domina training requires practical units. To put it bluntly, you cannot work as a dominatrix with a clear conscience without practical experience. However, it is wise not to jump in at the deep end, but to prepare yourself for the practical side of things. This is where I come in. I have written two guidebooks that I would recommend to any aspiring dominatrix. I know that these two books have made the path easier for many dominatrixes. And I am sure that with this knowledge, you will reach your goal much more easily.

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