Mistress Luna May, Heidelberg, Germany

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Mistress Luna May looks like a tall, blonde angel. But don’t be fooled — the 1.78 m tall Mistress loves and masters even the more extreme aspects of BDSM. She calls herself “a sadist through and through” and openly admits: “When my sub suffers for me, it warms my heart.” In this interview, we get to know the fascinating Mistress from Heidelberg, Baden-Württemberg.

Lady Sas: Dear Luna May, please tell us how you first discovered BDSM. How did it all start for you — and how did it continue?

Mistress Luna May: After finishing my training, I spent several years traveling — always looking for new, exciting experiences and encounters. Extravagant, alternative personalities have always fascinated me and drawn me in. So it was only natural that I ended up in the BDSM scene and started exploring. When I was living in Australia, I felt a very clear desire to become a Dominatrix professionally. After I came back to Germany, that passion didn’t go away — and I’m happy I chose that path for myself.

Mistress Luna May in Interview

Lady Sas: What fascinates you about dominating subs as a Mistress?

Mistress Luna May: It’s an instinct and a passion that has always been there. It has shaped me. Every encounter has its own fascination. Dominating and guiding subs, educating them and making them submit to me — this feels absolutely natural to me. I don’t have to force it. It’s who I am.

Lady Sas: How would you describe your style as a Domina?

Mistress Luna May: My style is classic — but cheeky. I’m adaptable in my sessions. I love to push, to challenge. I’m joyful and full of life. But I still rule with a strict hand and I expect manners and respectful behavior — something that, unfortunately, has partly been lost nowadays.

Lady Sas: Young, tall, blonde, absolutely beautiful — it’s obvious that many subs fall for you. How deep does that devotion go? Has anyone gotten a tattoo for you? Have you received love declarations, marriage proposals, or chastity key offers?

Mistress Luna May: I do have intense BDSM relationships in my life. That requires trust and long-term loyalty. If I recognize that kind of dedication in someone who serves me, it can go very far. Two subs actually wear my name on their skin as a sign of lifelong connection and respect. I rarely carry keys with me — I usually lock my subs with numbered single-use chastity locks. They’re very practical, work even when I’m not physically present, and are easy to control. A marriage proposal hasn’t happened yet — but never say never. 😉

Mistress Luna May on Chastity

Lady Sas: How do you use chastity? Which penis cage can you recommend?

Mistress Luna May: I think it’s incredibly hot to control my sub’s desire. Chastity is a key part of a long-term TPE dynamic, because it lets me exercise my power. I like classic metal cages — partly for hygiene, and partly because my sub can feel my control at all times. Cages made of silicone are too comfortable. I prefer the heavy ones.

Tip from Lady Sas: If you’re interested in chastity, take a look at my Chastity Training books 1 to 3.

Two of my subs wear my name on their skin as a sign of lifelong connection and recognition.

– Mistress Luna May

Lady Sas: You seem to enjoy education and training in pairs — for example together with Huntress Artemis. What is the appeal of duo sessions for you?

Mistress Luna May: Yes, Huntress Artemis is one of my closest confidants in the scene, and that is reflected in our shared sessions. I am selective and I only surround myself with people who have a positive mindset and solid values.

The interaction of several creative minds always turns the experience into something special. It creates exciting variety — especially when opposites meet.

“I love extreme play.”

Lady Sas: Bullwhip, fisting, scat, cold caning, stapling — that suggests you can play very hard. Where are your limits with extreme subs? Where do you say: this far and no further?

Mistress Luna May: I love extreme play. I am a sadist through and through. When my sub suffers for me, it makes my heart bloom. You can’t “learn” to be a dominatrix — it’s a calling, and it requires certain character traits. You need a highly developed sense for people, so that in extreme situations you can guide the subject to the perfect point and make the right decision in that exact moment. I am always aware of that responsibility and I would never do anything that could permanently endanger the health of someone under my protection.

New ideas just appear in the moment. Sudden inspirations — I act on them and create new scenarios. With me, there are no fixed routines. That way it always stays exciting for me and for my sub.

Mistress Luna May

Lady Sas: Do you sometimes have to reject ideas in order to protect a sub from himself — because his fantasy is going too far?

Mistress Luna May: Very often. Fantasy and reality are two different worlds, and they can’t always be combined.

Lady Sas: It’s exciting to go deeper and deeper into BDSM and keep evolving. Do you think there’s ever a point where you’ve seen and done it all?

Mistress Luna May: I can’t imagine that. This world is so big and so layered, full of desires and longings. I don’t think that point exists in BDSM. It never gets boring. There are always new experiences and impressions waiting in this colorful world.

What does the Mistress do in private?

Lady Sas: How do you come up with new ideas for sessions? What inspires you?

Mistress Luna May: My curiosity constantly feeds me inspiration. People inspire me. Situations inspire me. Impressions. New ideas just appear in the moment — I act on them spontaneously and create new scenarios. I don’t work with rigid routines, which keeps it exciting for me and for my sub.

Lady Sas: What do you do in your free time? Do you have hobbies?

Mistress Luna May: Traveling is my great passion. I love discovering the uniqueness and beauty of a country. I’m an individual traveler, I love stepping outside the comfort zone. I also practice yoga and I love diving — it helps me calm my mind and body again.

Lady Sas: How does your professional work as a dominatrix influence your private life? Have you changed privately?

Mistress Luna May: Absolutely. Life means constant growth and transformation. I don’t want to stand still — I welcome change with open arms. When one door closes, the next one opens. Life is exciting. I can honestly say I’ve never been this much at peace with myself, and I think you can see that in me.

Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?

Mistress Luna May: I’ll continue to do what I do best — shaping subs into true submissives. I also plan to produce BDSM films and travel internationally as a Mistress, playing in the dungeons of the world.

Lady Sas: Thank you very much for the interview.

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FAQs

Q1: Who is Mistress Luna May?
Mistress Luna May is a professional dominatrix from Heidelberg, Germany. She is known for her tall, elegant appearance and her passion for authentic BDSM experiences that balance intensity, control, and trust.

Q2: What kind of BDSM does Mistress Luna May enjoy?
She enjoys both classic and extreme forms of BDSM, including corporal punishment, fisting, cold caning, and chastity control. She describes herself as “a sadist through and through” and enjoys exploring the mental and emotional side of submission.

Q3: What does Mistress Luna May say about chastity?
For Mistress Luna May, chastity is a core part of long-term power exchange (TPE). She prefers metal cages over silicone ones — as they’re more hygienic and remind the sub constantly who holds control.

Q4: Does she work with other Mistresses?
Yes. Luna May often collaborates with Huntress Artemis, one of her closest friends in the scene. Duo sessions, she says, offer exciting variety and creative dynamics.

Q5: How does Mistress Luna May stay inspired?
Her curiosity and creativity drive her. She finds inspiration in people, encounters, and spontaneous ideas that emerge during play. For her, BDSM is a world of endless discovery — it never gets boring.

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