Femdom Blog: Female Domination, Psychology & Real Experiences

Welcome to our Femdom Blog—where we explore Female Dominance beyond the surface. Psychology. Power dynamics. Real practices.

Interviews with Mistresses who live and love this. No fantasy fiction. No shallow tutorials. Just honest perspectives on what it means to claim, hold, and use power as a woman.

We’ve been writing about Femdom since 2013. This Femdom Blog is our editorial space—where we share what we’ve learned, what we observe, and what the community teaches us through 170+ interviews with Dominatrices and submissives worldwide.

Featured Femdom Topics

Start here if you’re looking for structured knowledge on specific aspects of female dominance, BDSM dynamics, and psychological control.

→ Femdom Guide

Introduction to female dominance, practical techniques, mindset, and how to begin exploring your dominant side with confidence.

→ BDSM Guide

Safety protocols, consent frameworks, play ideas, and the foundations of healthy BDSM relationships.

→ Tease & Denial

The psychology of arousal control, orgasm denial techniques, and how to use sexual tension as a tool of dominance.

→ Female Led Relationship

Understanding FLR dynamics beyond the bedroom—how power exchange shapes daily life, decisions, and long-term partnerships.

→ Chastity

Male chastity as psychological control—device selection, keyholder responsibilities, and the mental aspects of orgasm control.

→ Cuckolding Psychology

The psychological mechanisms behind cuckolding fantasies and realities—jealousy, compersion, and sexual power dynamics.

Latest Articles & Updates on our Femdom Blog

We publish regularly on female dominance, power psychology, BDSM practices, and relationship dynamics. Our articles combine personal experience, community insights, and practical application.

→ Browse all blog posts in English

Interviews with Dominatrices & submissives

One of the most valuable aspects of this Femdom Blog: direct conversations with people who live female dominance professionally and privately. We’ve conducted over 170 interviews with Mistresses, Dominas, and submissives from around the world.

These aren’t promotional pieces. They’re honest discussions about technique, mindset, ethics, business practices, personal boundaries, and what actually works in long-term power exchange relationships.

Topics We Cover on our Femdom Blog

This Femdom Blog explores the full spectrum of female dominance—not just the physical practices, but the psychology, ethics, and real-life implementation.

  • Female Dominance Psychology: Why women choose dominance, how power dynamics function, and the mental aspects of maintaining control.
  • BDSM Practices & Safety: Practical guides on impact play, bondage, sensory control, protocol, and risk-aware consensual kink.
  • Power Exchange Relationships: FLR dynamics, 24/7 dominance, domestic discipline, and how authority structures function in long-term partnerships.
  • Sexual Control Techniques: Tease & denial, orgasm control, chastity training, edging, and using arousal as a dominance tool.
  • Cuckolding & Hotwife Dynamics: The psychological complexity of sexual jealousy, compersion, and non-monogamous power structures.
  • Sissification & Feminization: Gender play, forced feminization psychology, and the eroticization of masculinity transformation.
  • Real Stories from the Community: Experiences, challenges, failures, and insights from Mistresses and submissives who live this.

Stay Connected with our Femdom Blog

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💛 Female Power Books

If you enjoy reading deeper into these topics, we’ve written several books on Femdom, BDSM, and power dynamics. They’re available in print, as ebooks and as audiobooks.

Femdom Academy Book Guide by Lady Sas
Femdom Academy Book Guide by Lady Sas

Femdom Academy 1 – SM Course for Mistresses & Subs, Beginners & Advanced. Modern, easy-to-follow. Step by step: practices, rituals, communication, safety, materials, aftercare, and play ideas.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 4.5 / 5 stars on Amazon (95 global reviews).

Femdom Guide Book: Femdom Academy 2 by Lady Sas.
Femdom Guide Book: Femdom Academy 2

Femdom Academy 2 – SM Play on the Next Level. Learn advanced techniques, creative practices, and psychological play. For even more excitement and connection. For Mistresses and subs.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5 / 5 stars on Amazon (3 reviews).

Femdom Guide Book FLR
Femdom Guide Book: FLR

Femdom Academy 3 – Female Led Relationship. How to start and live a happy FLR? Learn from couples who successfully practice Female Led Relationships and share their insights.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5 / 5 stars on Amazon (3 reviews).

Prefer listening over reading? Discover our audiobooks. 🎧

Immersive, sensual, and expertly narrated journeys into the world of Femdom you can enjoy anytime, anywhere.

Portrait of Lady Sas and Lady Victoria, two private Femdoms from Frankfurt, Germany, authors of guides on Femdom, FLR, and BDSM.
Welcome to the Femdom Blog of Lady Sas and Lady Victoria

Who Writes This Femdom Blog?

We’re Saskia (Lady Sas) and Victoria (Lady V)—two private Femdoms from Frankfurt am Main, Germany. We’ve been active in the scene for years and have built Lady-Sas.com as a resource since 2013.

Our team also includes Lady Franziska, Sub jO and Sub Toytoy, who contribute their perspectives. Together, we create educational content on Femdom, BDSM, Female Led Relationships, chastity, cuckolding, and sissification.

We write this Femdom Blog from experience—not fantasy. What you read here reflects real practices, real challenges, and real insights from living female dominance.

Femdom Blog – Frequently Asked Questions

Is this Femdom blog free to read?

Yes. All articles, guides, and interviews are free and accessible online. No paywall, no registration required.

How often do you publish new content?

We publish regularly—usually several times per month. This includes new articles, interviews, and updates to existing guides.

Is this blog only for women, or can men read it too?

Anyone interested in female dominance can read this blog. We write for dominant women, submissive men, and anyone curious about power exchange dynamics.

Do you offer personal coaching or sessions?

No. We’re private Femdoms who write and publish educational content. We don’t offer professional Domme services or personal coaching. The interviews on this blog feature Dominatrices who do work professionally—you can contact them directly if interested.

Can I submit my own story or experience?

We occasionally accept guest contributions. If you have a compelling story or insight related to Femdom, BDSM, or FLR, you can reach out through our contact page. We can’t guarantee publication, but we read everything.