New to Femdom? Start with our Femdom Guide. Or explore the broader BDSM Guide by Lady Sas.
Lady Vyra from Berlin is a sensual German Dominatrix who embodies both emotional depth and refined power. She took generous time to answer my questions, offering open and detailed insights into her world. That makes this conversation especially exciting — particularly when Lady Vyra looks back and reveals how her preferences developed at a young age, or when she explains the meaning behind her name and what she associates with it.
Every interview paints a picture. In the case of Lady Vyra, this picture is rich and full of nuance — not a quick sketch, but a detailed painting with layers of thought, emotion and sensuality. Enjoy getting to know the woman behind the name.
Lady Sas: Dear Lady Vyra, please tell us about your journey into the bizarre realm.
Lady Vyra:
Looking back, I realize that I was kinky from a young age. Early memories include fantasies of sensory deprivation and imprisonment. As a teenager, I began exploring my kinky side alongside my sexual experimentation. It was during intimate moments that my dominant tendencies surfaced. I vividly recall the thrill of playing with my boyfriend’s nipples, being excited by his reaction to pain, but it was his desire to endure it for my pleasure that excited me even more!
I experimented in my private life for a long time and went to an event or two before getting my official start in the BDSM scene when I went to a play party in 2012. The following day, I signed up for a 5-day intensive workshop, “BDSM and Breathwork”. The combination of BDSM and the deep understanding of the body through the breath really resonated with me, given my background in dance and experience with Vipassana meditation.
Over the next few years, I attended as many BDSM workshops, festivals, and play parties as I could and gained a lot of experience. I met a lot of professional sex workers along the way, which sparked my curiosity, leading me to explore working as a Dominatrix. In 2015, I took the plunge and began working at my first studio. Initially a side job, it gradually evolved into my primary profession. It’s wonderful to do something that I enjoy so much!
Sensual German Dominatrix: Lady Vyra from Berlin talks to Lady Sas
Lady Sas: How have you changed personally through your work as a Dominatrix?
Lady Vyra:
Overall, it has solidified and strengthened characteristics that were already there.
As a Dominatrix, I come into intimate contact with a lot of different people, many of whom come from very different backgrounds than I do. Through holding space and connecting with their desires, I have become a more playful, tolerant and empathetic person.
Entering the industry, I never anticipated how much my own interests would expand based on my guests’ desires. I often receive requests for kinks or fantasies that I initially lack experience in, and I think, “Okay, I’ll try this once just to see how it is….” Surprisingly, many of these things have become some of my favorites. I’ve always had a creative and kinky mind, but my fantasy palette has expanded even further. Doing this work means living out fantasies and scenarios a lot of people can only dream of, which is so exciting!
Lady Sas: Does the “Vyra” have a special meaning or is it just a name?
Lady Vyra:
I chose the name Vyra intuitively. When I say it, I love how it rolls off the tongue. It reminds me of a viper – something snaky, strong, slinky and sensual. Over time, the name Vyra has acquired special meaning for me; I now think of it as a “Kraftgegenstand,” something that gives me power.
Lady Sas: “Sensual dominance in Berlin” is the subheading on your website. What do you mean by this and why do you go in this direction?
Lady Vyra:
I perceive my dominance as a full body experience. Being a naturally sensual person, I love the sensation of being fully present in my body. In my sessions, I delight in engaging the senses, like exploring various forms of touch ranging from gentle to intense, playing with proximity and distance – whether it’s drawing close to whisper in someone’s ear while they are restrained or observing them from across the room while I tease them – I enjoy that dynamic interplay.
Feeling the touch of my skin on someone else’s body, torturing someone while making deep eye contact, syncing my breath with theirs during moments of pain – these experiences encompass the essence of sensual dominance for me.
About the fetish “Omarashi”
Lady Sas: In your offer there is also the point Omarashi. What exactly is that?
Lady Vyra:
“Omarashi” is a Japanese term that translates to “to wet oneself.” It involves a paraphilia related to urinating on oneself, experiencing arousal from having a full bladder, inducing a full bladder in someone else, or witnessing someone “relieve” themselves.
I discovered my interest in this during a session where the guest wanted me to prohibit him from going to the bathroom until the end of our time together. When finally I allowed him to urinate, it became an orgasmic experience for him, and I found it incredibly fascinating. That’s a perfect example of how my guest’s desires expand my own interests.
Lady Sas: Is Berlin also the capital of Germany when it comes to femdom BDSM?
Lady Vyra:
I’m not entirely sure, as I have not yet connected with Femdom in other cities. But there is undeniably a sizable and vibrant community here. I feel fortunate to be part of the Studio Lux team, surrounded by so many intriguing and talented colleagues.
Lady Sas: War in Europe, economic crisis, inflation, political disputes, trials and tribulations – does this have an impact on business?
Yes, it does have an impact. However, interestingly, I’ve also noticed an influx of beginners booking sessions for the first time. It’s as if they’ve been contemplating the idea for a while and finally decide it’s now or never. This trend became apparent a few years ago after the lockdowns were lifted and I see it happening again. It’s as if their fantasies had been brewing during the lockdowns, and whatever hesitations existed before were now overridden by the urgent need to explore kinks they had not yet dared to. In challenging times, people tend to seek moments of escape from their troubles. Fortunately, sex work is legal in Germany, and being able to meet for a session provides an outlet for that. Let’s hope that doesn’t change!
Lady Vyra about her private time and plans for the future
Lady Sas: If you weren’t working as a mistress, what else would you do for a living?
Lady Vyra:
It’s hard to imagine not being in this line of work, but I’ve had various jobs in the past. My background is the arts, so I might consider returning to something along those lines. The key for me is that it needs to be a creative and exciting endeavor—I’m certainly not suited for a traditional office job.
Lady Sas: Please tell us how you spend your free time.
Lady Vyra:
I definitely love to treat myself to sensual delights, like a massage, good food or a nice glass of wine. I spend a lot of time reading and love going to the theater and art exhibits. And traveling Is another interest, especially if it is to go hiking.
Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?
Lady Vyra:
In the short term, I am currently working on some audio and video projects. I recently completed a hypnosis course, so I’m excited to create some audio files. Given my special fondness for JOI (Jerk Off Instructions), I plan to produce some videos in that genre.
Looking ahead, in the long term, I’d like to organize larger scale and longer sessions. I’ve always had a special fondness for group sessions and envision exploring more of that realm. With a network of such fascinating individuals around me, I believe there are some interesting possibilities for intriguing sessions that we can create together.
Lady Sas: Thank you very much.
Did you enjoy this interview? Get the Inner Circle Newsletter. Exclusive interviews, advice and announcements – directly by email.
Other fascinating interviews:
Lady Cheyenne de Muriel, Stuttgart
Dominatrix Virginia Nox, Düsselorf, Germany
Want to find out more about Femdom, BDSM and FLR?
Available at Amazon, Apple, Barnes & Noble, Rakuten kobo and more.
FAQ Lady Vyra
What makes Lady Vyra a sensual German Dominatrix?
Lady Vyra combines empathy, sensuality and strict control in her sessions. Her dominance is based on body awareness, emotional intelligence and the art of presence – not on aggression or pain alone.
Where is Lady Vyra based?
Lady Vyra lives and works in Berlin, where she is part of a vibrant Femdom and BDSM community.
What is special about her style of dominance?
She defines “sensual dominance” as a full-body experience that engages all senses – from voice and breath to physical proximity. It’s about intensity, connection and transformation rather than punishment.
Does Lady Vyra offer sessions to beginners?
Yes. Lady Vyra welcomes beginners who wish to explore BDSM and Femdom safely and consciously. She emphasizes communication, respect and aftercare.
Who’s writing here?
Hi, we are Lady Sas and Lady Victoria, two private Femdoms from Frankfurt am Main. We are experts and authors on the topics of Femdom, BDSM, FLR, cuckolding, chastity, and sissification.
With Lady-Sas.com, we want to encourage private women to discover their dominance and live out their desires. We also want to encourage submissive men to feel comfortable in their role.