Goddess Lady Skotia, Dominatrix from Zurich, on BDSM, Psychology, and Female Domination

Goddess Lady Skotia: young, blonde, full lips, and a figure that brings slaves to their knees. The attractive Dominatrix in Zurich lives out her passion alongside her studies. A conversation about rules and norms, BDSM psychology, beginner mistakes, and the private side of Lady Skotia.

Dominatrix Zurich: Lady Skotia Interview

Lady Sas: Dear Skotia, you’re only in your mid-20s and already working as a dominatrix. How did that happen? Please tell us about your journey.

Goddess Lady Skotia: Well, first of all, I don’t think age has anything to do with living out your passion. The only absolute, truly limitless freedom I have ever felt was within my sexuality.

Because of my openness and curiosity, I discovered BDSM quite early in life. As I immersed myself deeper and deeper into this multifaceted world, it became increasingly clear to me that I could fully identify with authentic dominance, sadism, and female supremacy. That was the beginning of my path, and nothing fascinates me more than meeting all kinds of different people and exploring — and bringing to life — both their darkest fantasies and my own.

Lady Sas: You were born in Germany. What brought you to Switzerland?

Goddess Lady Skotia: Exactly. Switzerland always attracted me with its uniqueness and never really let me go again. I feel very comfortable here.

Lady Sas: You describe yourself as a rebel. Aside from BDSM, how else do you break rules and social norms?

Goddess Lady Skotia: I would say mainly through my attitude toward society itself. What could be considered more “depraved” than walking through the streets as a seemingly respectable and proper citizen while secretly delighting in thoughts of perversion and otherness?

For me, “rebellion” is an inner conviction that you don’t necessarily have to share with everyone. Of course, certain rules are necessary for society to function — no doubt about that. But freedom of thought creates limitless space for bizarre transgressions.

Besides that, I live my days and my life the way I want to, and I can shape my time largely according to my own desires and moods.

Lady Sas: Has it become more difficult to admire a man in your private life since you have slaves kissing your feet?

Goddess Lady Skotia: I wouldn’t say that having slaves makes it harder for me to admire a man privately. A man entering my personal life certainly doesn’t have it easy when it comes to earning my respect and securing that place beside me. But if he does, he has definitely impressed me or managed to meet me almost as an equal. And honestly, that has always been the case with me.

Dominatrix Zurich: BDSM & Psychology

Lady Sas: On your website, you mention that you study psychology and also work as a model. Do you already know what you want to do after graduation?

Goddess Lady Skotia: Yes, I’m still at the beginning of my psychology studies. I started modeling at 17, and it’s generally just for fun. But I absolutely have a vision for what I’d like to do after university.

I can imagine staying connected to the slave world and perhaps one day opening my own practice for sexual and relationship counseling. Everything else, I’ll simply let unfold naturally.

Lady Sas: What does the psychology student think about BDSM? Why do slaves love submission and dominatrices love power?

Goddess Lady Skotia: Well, psychology doesn’t offer one universal explanation for that. It depends on many different factors and personal backgrounds, and the topic is far too complex to summarize briefly here. There are countless theories and approaches in both psychology and research.

Personally, I haven’t fully committed to one explanation yet. That’s why I would rather leave the interpretation of these motivations to each individual.

Lady Sas: Does psychology have an answer for why so many men have a shoe or foot fetish?

Goddess Lady Skotia: Shoe fetishism is actually recognized in psychology and sexology as a form of compulsive behavior and even has its own term: retifism. It describes an obsessive attraction and fixation triggered by shoes and women’s feet in shoes.

The origins of a foot fetish, however, cannot be clearly determined because too many influences play a role. Some fetishistic preferences seem to develop very early in life, possibly through conditioning, emotional deprivation, or premature separation from parents. Others emerge later and can sometimes be traced back to a specific event through psychoanalysis.

Lady Sas: How would you react if one of your professors suddenly visited you as a client?

Goddess Lady Skotia: Very simply: absolutely professionally — meaning calm, discreet, and self-assured. That’s why it’s not difficult for me to separate things, even with people I know personally.

My professor is more than just “the professor.” He also has a sexuality, fantasies, desires, and needs. Of course, I would leave it entirely up to him whether he truly wanted to pursue such an encounter or look elsewhere instead. But it would certainly be fascinating to get to know him from a completely different perspective.

Does Your Environment Know About Your Work as a Dominatrix in Zurich?

Lady Sas: On your photos, you don’t show your full face. Does your personal environment know about your work as a dominatrix?

Lady Skotia: My closest private circle knows about my work as a dominatrix. Openness in that regard is personally very important to me. At the same time, a certain level of anonymity online is essential.

After all, I don’t know whether I would still be happy in the future about having revealed myself so openly to the world. I also want to spare the people close to me certain possible consequences.

We may live in the 21st century, but that certainly doesn’t mean society has become completely open-minded about these topics.

Lady Sas: Which beginner mistake would you have preferred to avoid?

Lady Skotia: I would say that in the beginning I allowed myself to be influenced too much by impressions, images, and other people’s ideas. That unconsciously blocked and unsettled my own personal development.

Only after I completely put those outside influences aside was I truly able to develop freely as a Mistress and dominatrix. Today, I see external influences as inspiration and motivation to further refine — and enforce — my own philosophy.

Lady Sas: Imagine you meet a handsome Hollywood star, he falls in love with you, and when it comes to sex he wants you on your knees as his slave. How would you react?

Lady Skotia: That scenario doesn’t seem strange to me at all. I’ve actually experienced and explored something similar before — though not with a Hollywood star.

At first, it certainly wasn’t easy for me, but I had a great deal of trust in that person and gradually opened myself up to the experience. With a stranger — whether a Hollywood star, sex symbol, or casual acquaintance — I would never truly allow that dynamic to happen.

In the end, I simply enjoy being the dominant part far too much, and I can fully express myself that way. But I must admit that the experience helped me grow and allowed me to understand my slaves even better.

Lady Sas: Studies and whips — that sounds exhausting. How do you find balance? Do you have hobbies?

Lady Skotia: Yes, it can definitely be exhausting at times. But because I study remotely and work independently as a dominatrix, I can take breaks whenever I need them.

My hobbies also help me maintain inner balance. I love art and paint passionately. Sports are very important to me as well. I enjoy traveling, and my daily walk in nature is absolutely essential.

And finally, every now and then, a wild party night is also a form of grounding and balance in its own way — at least for me. Overall, variety, enjoyment, and passion are essential parts of life and existence.

Lady Sas: Thank you for these fascinating insights.

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