Sub Toytoy, owned by Lady Sas, answers reader questions.
Q: Do you have any tips for dealing with arousal while in chastity?
Sub Toytoy: I don’t believe in cold showers. Distraction helps. The more you indulge in fantasies, the worse it gets.
Q: In the books Lady Sas seems strict but always composed. Is that true?
Sub Toytoy: She is strict but never reckless. I fully trust her.
Interview with sub Toytoy
Readers ask – Toytoy answers.
Q: Have you ever met her ex-husband or daughter?
Toytoy: No.
Q: What has been your worst punishment so far?
Toytoy: Being ignored.
Q: When you’re allowed to orgasm, how does it happen?
Toytoy: It varies depending on the Mistress’s mood.
Q: After weeks without orgasm, how do you handle the pressure?
Toytoy: In the beginning it was very hard. I couldn’t focus at work, was irritable, restless, and couldn’t sleep. I begged after 7 days. She told me I had much more in me. She was right. I’ve learned to cope—but it’s still difficult.
Toytoy on Chastity
Q: How do you handle being seen naked at the gym? The CB6000 might be visible.
Toytoy: I avoid showering there. I go home to shower privately.
Q: In the book Dominaduell you seemed very into Miss J. How did you feel when she wasn’t allowed to play anymore?
Toytoy: It fit perfectly. I was disappointed. Hard topic.
Q: Is it an issue to be used by completely unknown Femdoms?
Toytoy: No. Lady Sas was present. I was nervous, but I trust her.
Q: Do you sometimes miss a vanilla partner—for love and sex?
Toytoy: I’d be lying if I said no. But it’s fine. I know I’m lucky to serve Lady Sas.
Q: Are the scenes in the books realistically described?
Toytoy: Absolutely. I recognize them.
Secret “Pull-Out”
Q: The CB6000 isn’t escape-proof. Have you ever cheated?
Toytoy: In the very beginning, yes. Bad idea—punishment followed.
Q: Is it difficult to surrender control over your orgasms permanently?
Toytoy: It’s the hardest part of all.
Q: Has it ever gone too far—“be careful what you wish for”?
Toytoy: I know exactly what you mean. Yes, you must be careful. I rarely ask for new challenges. Lady Sas drives the dynamic.
Q: What are your hard limits? Is it tempting to push them?
Toytoy: They’re in our contract. I do not want to push them.
Q: In a “never-inside” relationship—does it satisfy you?
Toytoy: Of course I still desire intercourse.
Q: Who had the idea for the CB6000?
Toytoy: Lady Sas.
Q: Would you end chastity if you could?
Toytoy: Immediately. But Lady Sas enjoys it. So my chances are slim.
Q: Do you get aroused while wearing the CB6000?
Toytoy: Yes, often. It prevents erection—not arousal.
Sub Toytoy on Taboos
Q: If Lady Sas gave an order violating your taboo—would you obey? Toytoy: No. A taboo is a taboo. I may not be punished for refusing.
Q: Have you ever tried dog food?
Toytoy: No.
Q: Someone said you serve at SM parties abroad—true? Why not in Germany?
Toytoy: Lady Sas doesn’t attend such parties in Germany—for discretion. Abroad happens rarely.
Q: What is Lady Sas like?
Toytoy: She has an extraordinary presence. Intelligent, warm, humorous, generous—and strict, ambitious, and consistent.
Q: Did you have a Mistress before Lady Sas?
Toytoy: No private Mistress before her. I tried to find one. I visited OWK and pro Dominas.
Q: Any tips for finding a private Mistress like Lady Sas?
Toytoy: The internet works best—platforms for matching. SM meetups can help too.
Q: Are you afraid she might take another sub if you disobey?
Toytoy: Yes, the thought exists. She gets many applications.
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FAQs
Do you have any tips for dealing with arousal while in chastity?
Sub Toytoy: I don’t believe in cold showers. Distraction helps. The more you indulge in fantasies, the worse it gets.
In the books Lady Sas seems strict but always composed. Is that true?
Sub Toytoy: She is strict but never reckless. I fully trust her.
Have you ever met her ex-husband or daughter?
Sub Toytoy: No.
What has been your worst punishment so far?
Sub Toytoy: Being ignored.
When you’re allowed to orgasm, how does it happen?
Sub Toytoy: It varies depending on the Mistress’s mood.
After weeks without orgasm, how do you handle the pressure?
Sub Toytoy: In the beginning it was very hard. I couldn’t focus at work, was irritable, restless, and couldn’t sleep. I begged after 7 days. She told me I had much more in me. She was right. I’ve learned to cope—but it’s still difficult.
How do you handle being seen naked at the gym when the CB6000 might be visible?
Sub Toytoy: I avoid showering there. I go home to shower privately.
In the book Dominaduell you seemed very into Miss J. How did you feel when she wasn’t allowed to play anymore?
Sub Toytoy: It fit perfectly. I was disappointed. Hard topic.
Is it an issue to be used by completely unknown Femdoms?
Sub Toytoy: No. Lady Sas was present. I was nervous, but I trust her.
Do you sometimes miss a vanilla partner—for love and sex?
Sub Toytoy: I’d be lying if I said no. But it’s fine. I know I’m lucky to serve Lady Sas.
Are the scenes in the books realistically described?
Sub Toytoy: Absolutely. I recognize them.
The CB6000 isn’t escape-proof. Have you ever cheated?
Sub Toytoy: In the very beginning, yes. Bad idea—punishment followed.
Is it difficult to surrender control over your orgasms permanently?
Sub Toytoy: It’s the hardest part of all.
Has it ever gone too far—“be careful what you wish for”?
Sub Toytoy: I know exactly what you mean. Yes, you must be careful. I rarely ask for new challenges. Lady Sas drives the dynamic.
What are your hard limits? Is it tempting to push them?
Sub Toytoy: They’re in our contract. I do not want to push them.
In a “never-inside” relationship—does it satisfy you?
Sub Toytoy: Of course I still desire intercourse.
Who had the idea for the CB6000?
Sub Toytoy: Lady Sas.
Would you end chastity if you could?
Sub Toytoy: Immediately. But Lady Sas enjoys it. So my chances are slim.
Do you get aroused while wearing the CB6000?
Sub Toytoy: Yes, often. It prevents erection—not arousal.
If Lady Sas gave an order violating your taboo—would you obey?
Sub Toytoy: No. A taboo is a taboo. I may not be punished for refusing.
Have you ever tried dog food?
Sub Toytoy: No.
Someone said you serve at SM parties abroad—true? Why not in Germany?
Sub Toytoy: Lady Sas doesn’t attend such parties in Germany—for discretion. Abroad happens rarely.
What is Lady Sas like?
Sub Toytoy: She has an extraordinary presence. Intelligent, warm, humorous, generous—and strict, ambitious, and consistent.
Did you have a Mistress before Lady Sas?
Sub Toytoy: No private Mistress before her. I tried to find one. I visited OWK and pro Dominas.
Any tips for finding a private Mistress like Lady Sas?
Sub Toytoy: The internet works best—platforms for matching. SM meetups can help too.
Are you afraid she might take another sub if you disobey?
Sub Toytoy: Yes, the thought exists. She gets many applications.
