Mistress Lady Lola, London 🇬🇧

Lady Lola from London possesses the most valuable thing a mistress can have: creativity. Together with Alice Malice, she has established the Kidnap Club. A platform to explore complex, in-depth and extensive role-play scenarios. Here, extraordinary experiences are created that reach completely new dimensions through storytelling and next level plotting and planning. There are no limits to the imagination and the joy of playing.

“From a utopian FemDom universe, to an alternative realm where sissy dreams come true, a latex clinic for sadistic doctors to conduct medical experiments and a dark dystopian dreamscape where leather clad Agents rule supreme.” In the interview, we learn more about this extraordinary concept and the imaginative, creative and breathtakingly beautiful Mistress behind it. Enjoy!

Lady Sas: Dear Lola, please describe how you became a Dominatrix.

Mistress Lady Lola: Looking back, I can see My journey to become a Dominatrix was a convergence of two passions. Not surprisingly, a love of fetish fashion and also My passion for ballet. 

My fascination with fetishism grew from an adoration of the otherworldly appeal of vintage glamour. As I slipped into fully fashioned stocking, tight leather boots, demure pencil skirts, decadent furs and of course butter-soft, leather gloves – I was dressing for pleasure, My own pleasure. But it soon became apparent that certain items of clothing, and how they are worn, can exude intrinsic power.

As a vintage glamour enthusiast I began turning heads, little did I know My journey to fetish fashionista and then Professional Dominatrix would soon have men falling at My high-arched, well- trained, dancers feet. 

As a dancer I knew the pleasures, pain and rewards of committing to a corporal discipline and art. This understanding of embodied knowledge and mind-body connection allowed Me to inflict pain and grant pleasure with empathy and grace. And also to understand what can be achieved with dedication, guidance and perseverance. 

The Kidnap Klub was formed partly in response to the myriad of requests Myself and Mistress Alice Malice received for kinky kidnaps, and partly due to our desires to explore more complex, in-depth and extensive role-play scenarios.

Lady Lola

Mistress Lady Lola, London, interviewed by Lady Sas

Lady Sas: Your slogan is “The Lure of Perfection”. What do you associate with this statement?

Mistress Lady Lola: Like a moth to the flame, “The Lure of Perfection” is an invitation. It speaks to the invisible pull that draws a submissive to kneel, to serve and to worship at the alter of the Divine Feminine. 

The archetype of the Dominatrix radiates an unattainable perfection. Stationed on Her throne, atop a physical and metaphorical pillar, forever just out of reach. Her attentions must be strived for, earned and ultimately granted.  This sacred space is a place for self expression, exploration and connection.

Lady Sas: What excites you about BDSM and training slaves?

Mistress Lady Lola: In My BDSM practice, I strive to honour the long-established rituals of the dungeon whilst celebrating the intrinsic truths to be found in Woman Worship and Female Domination. 

I delight in challenging pre-conceived ideas of pleasure and pain. It’s not all about pain but rather finding new expressions of pleasure. 

What arouses us is not always what we were taught. Society not only projects pre-conceived sexual norms but also inflicts its own expectations. I am intent on breaking down these taboos while exploring the complexities of human connection. This can only be achieved through dedication, consistency and trust. 

These are the qualities that excite Me in a slave and echo My own approach to both training and the dark arts of BDSM.

Each one of my sessions is unique, choreographed to the intersection of My own and My slaves interests. This approach compliments My desire to honour the art form by continually honing My skills. The capacity for growth in BDSM is endless and infinite whether you are the Mistress or the slave. 

Our Total Black Out experience is not for the faint-hearted or feeble-minded. It is a totally immersive and extended experience which aims to submerge our subject into their imagined ‘fantasy,’ plunging them deep down, into the rabbit hole of Our KK world.

Lady Lola

The Kidnap Klub in London

Lady Sas: A really outstanding idea is your Kidnap Klub. Could you please explain what this is and how it works?

Mistress Lady Lola: The Kidnap Klub was formed partly in response to the myriad of requests Myself and Mistress Alice Malice received for kinky kidnaps, and partly due to our desires to explore more complex, in-depth and extensive role-play scenarios. Having already collaborated on numerous kidnaps for our loyal slave base, We decided to offer this unique service beyond our established stables. And the Kidnap Klub was born.

This demand, coupled with our own passion for incorporating nuanced narratives, cinematic inspiration, storytelling and next level plotting and planning, meant the whole process felt entirely organic, a logical evolution of our current Mistress incarnations. 

Potential “targets” apply by filing in our online application form. Only a fraction of hopeful applicants are successful. From the intel collected, We assess and discuss their suitability for Our attentions. Successful applicants then enter the next level of assessment and psychological profiling. 

Lady Sas: At the Kidnap Klub there are three packages available. The “Total Black Out” for experienced players includes 2+ locations, 3+ days and costs about £10K. What kind of person books this offer? What is the psychology behind it?

Mistress Lady Lola: Our Total Black Out experience is not for the faint-hearted or feeble-minded. It is a totally immersive and extended experience which aims to submerge our subject into their imagined ‘fantasy,’ plunging them deep down, into the rabbit hole of Our KK world. Whether it’s being lured into a honey trap and waking up in a prison cell or finding themselves accosted in a dark alley before being thrown into the back of a van, We take their personal fantasies and turn them into reality. The KK is where kinky dreams and nightmares collide. 

Due to the intense nature of this experience, We generally reserve this package for seasoned players and targets already know to us. One of our recent Total Black Out targets described it as “an intense holiday and total psychological reset.’’

In addition, some subjects use it as an opportunity for intense training.  Business trips or holidays can be transformed into the ultimate test of endurance or opportunity for an extensive and extended session. 

We have also created kidnaps in many parallel worlds…from a utopian FemDom universe, to an alternative realm where sissy dreams come true, a latex clinic for sadistic doctors to conduct medical experiments and a dark dystopian dreamscape where leather clad Agents rule supreme. 

Lady Lola

Agent L & Agent A

Lady Sas: In this scenario you are Agent L, working together with Agent A also known as Alice Malice. What are the advantages of playing as a team?

Mistress Lady Lola: I would say Our Mistress power combined is Our Mistress power squared! Anyone who has experienced Our “sadistic-sister” dynamic always comments on Our chemistry. Having collaborated for over a decade We work seamlessly together. Our styles of domination compliment and enhance any scenario. At the heart of it, We love working together and our subs can taste it! We bring out the best in each other, and the worst…. playing off each other with a sadistic glint in Our eyes. 

Lady Sas: Is this an offer that is more likely to be taken up by truly experienced masochists or is it more of a mental stimulation? 

Mistress Lady Lola: The Kidnap Klub demographic ranges from enthusiastic newcomers to more cerebral kinksters wanting to push the envelope of what they have experienced so far….whether that’s mental or physical.  But most often it’s a powerful mixture of both.  

I would say if there is one thing running the KK has taught Us though, it is never to second guess or make assumptions of our targets and their motives.  

We have also created kidnaps in many parallel worlds…from a utopian FemDom universe, to an alternative realm where sissy dreams come true, a latex clinic for sadistic doctors to conduct medical experiments and a dark dystopian dreamscape where leather clad Agents rule supreme. 

We truly revel in creating characters, storyline, narratives, tasks, missions and memories.

Lady Lola

Lady Sas: Do you also have a penchant for spy and agent stories in your private life?

Mistress Lady Lola: Naturally, especially those with femme fatale protagonists who emerge victorious whether heroine or villainess! And I am obsessed with researching historical female trailblazers, rebels, showwoman, courtesans, and larger than life personalities from the demimonde, many of whom’s incredible stories have been lost to history. These are the woman that inspire My life and work.

The KK offers a unique opportunity to transcend the boundaries of more traditional sessions, scenes and play. We truly revel in creating characters, storyline, narratives, tasks, missions and memories.  

There is the most wonderful illusion of control as you spill your desires and secrets to Us, only to have them used against you in the most compelling and creative ways possible.  

For example We previously designed and created a bespoke comic book character for one of our enthusiastic subjects and brought this world to life on the streets of London complete with damsels in distress and catsuit clad villainesses stalking every fearful step.    

We have also created kidnaps in many parallel worlds…from a utopian Fem-Dom universe, to an alternative realm where sissy dreams come true, and a dark dystopian dreamscape where leather clad Agents rule supreme.

Mistress Lady Lola about inspiration and free time

Lady Sas: How do you come up with new ideas for sessions?

Mistress Lady Lola: My Mistress mind rarely switches off so I’m always looking for fresh inspiration, ideas and new skillsets to add to My repertoire. They are all around us…you just need to know where to look…from references in popular culture to a trip to a DIY shop where you discover a sadistic accessory extraordinaire. 

Much as I have a very fertile mind, I also never overlook the ideas a slave might conjure up. Such creative collaborations are priceless indeed. 

Lady Sas: Please tell us how you spend your free time.

Mistress Lady Lola: Time is never free, it’s the most precious commodity we have as humans so I try not to waste a single second. 

Perhaps unsurprisingly, I love fashion, film, literature, travel and adventure…fitting for an international Dominatrix.

Lady Sas: What are your plans for the future?

Mistress Lady Lola: I’d love to combine My wanderlust with My kink-lust to a greater extent. Having just returned from offering sessions in Paris, I look forward to more travelling, touring and FMTY rendezvous to inspire My insatiable curiosity and sense of adventure.

As for the KK, well the sky is the limit…although let’s not rule out an inter-planetary abduction any time soon. Given the scope and scale of applications, world domination awaits! 

Lady Sas: Thank you very much.

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